What is less acceptable to you a gay person or a kinky person? What is less acceptable to you a gay person or a kinky person? Just to clarify a gay person is a homosexual and a kinky person is a person that could be of any sexual orientation who practices BDSM. |
| Neither one. I accept both. A gay is a person that is gay. No big deal to me. I liked kinky girls when I was dating. So I guess I accept both. As far as involvement, I wouldn't get involved with a gay sexually, but the kinky female is a dream come true. God bless kinky good looking women! |
What kind of gay guys I should consider Weirdos or Kinky or crazy? As a newly gay myself What kind of gay guys I should consider Weirdos or Kinky or crazy? |
That is difficult to say- we are all weird, kinky, or crazy to some extent.
You will have to decide for yourself just how much you can tolerate. |
Has anyone tried gay kinky sex? What kind of things did you do? My boyfriend and I are thinking of doing it? |
What do you mean by kinky? What may be kinky to you may be normal to others!
I have done things that may be considered kinky, both single and with my partner. Sorry I cannot go into detail in this forum, as it would get my account deleted. |
Is my boyfriend gay, kinky..or just curious? I've been with this guy for about a year and we've known each other for about two...recently we were playing a game of I ask him sexual questions and he gives a yes or no answer. e.i ... would u like to see me with another girl? would you like to see me with another guy? when I asked him... "would you like a guy to do you?"..he said "no"..when I asked... "would you like to do another guy?" he said "yes..maybe." but first he said.." are you trying to see if i'm gay?" because i had been asking him earlier about man on man action and it kept going into a circle of "is that what you want?"i said "no, just curious." when i asked.." would you give head to another guy?" he said "no." when i asked would you like another guy to give you head?"..he said "yes." when i asked if he "would like me to do him with a strap on"..he said "yes". we've always been very open with fantasies and kinky in bed and he's an amazing lover. he says he loves me and i love him.. i've asked him if he was gay before and he said no or made a joke.we had somewhat talked about it before...and every time i mentioned a threesome with another guy he would either say no or only if you want it...and it would turn into.. he would say "is that what you want?" it went from as long as there's no guy on guy touching to he would do a guy. he gets turned on by anything that turns me on. i can't tell if this is just him being curious and kinky or saying yes because he thinks it's what i want or if he might be gay or bi and trying to come out. i don't want to be weirded out around him now after he was finally comfortable and open with me. he said he's never been with a guy before...except he had a threesome with his friend and another girl and he swears him and the guy didn't touch. i asked my straight guy friend and he said "gay..hands down." he is can be somewhat metro sometimes. and him and his guy friend are very close..who also has a girlfriend.. and he always is talking about watching me with another girl...but on the other hand..he loves clothes. help. |
There's sort of a double standard here. A girl can make out with another girl and still call herself straight, maybe bi. But a guy has any interest in other men, even only getting head, and suddenly he's "gay".
If sounds like your boyfriend is a little bi-curious. He probably prefers women, only wants to date them, but has a little curiosity about guys. I bet the guys he's most attracted to are extremely feminine and small.
Assuming he likes having sex with you, he's not just gay. He's probably somewhere between kinky and curious. |
Gay People: Have you ever been in a kinky mood and had a Straight fantasy? please describe. |
Are you trying to get horny off this question?
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If you date a guy that likes if (your the guy)sometimes is he gay or just kinky? meaning the female wears strap on..and movies like that |
| Usually it means he just likes butt play and is very kinky. If he were into guys playing with his butt or guy on guy action in movies, THEN you might want to wonder if he's gay. As long as he's into the female on male things he's just a kinky perv. :-D |
I DONT THINK IM GAY, ITS JUST KINKY??? ok im 19 (male) and i have found that gay thoughts are kinky to me to pleasure myself to, i can do it to girls to, but i find that in real life i find girls extremely attractive both emotionally and physically where guys- i dont have any sort of attraction for, i mean i would rather hang out as friends with guys instead of girls but thats about it, so i thought i might have been gay but that cant be possible because i love girls alot and i dont have any attraction for guys, so maybe im not 100 percent straight so what, but im pretty sure i lean alot farther over to the straight side than the gay side, i mean maybe i would enjoy sex with a guy, i still never want to do it tho, im heart sick over this one girl and shes all i can think about, so is it ok if i have a gay fantasy to pleasure myself to here and there, i mean i can accept that i may not be 100 percent straight, i feel like on a graph from 1-10 i would be an 8.5, i would never want to act upon the fantasies, i mean really i just like girls way to much |
It's all cool.
You like girls a lot and you may have a very slight sexual attraction to guys.
Do what feels right to you, don't force yourself to be anything you're not.
If you feel like one day you have a major tilt into liking guys a lot, perhaps more than girls, just do whatever makes you happy. Don't avoid something that will truly make you happy. EVER! Unless it's hurting someone else...which would kind of be twisted....lol |
Do YOU Agree that Gay men are more Kinky then Straight ones? Firstly just speaking from my experience, with my all my previous boyfriends, bdsm was a common thing, compared to all my straight male friends, they refuse to do any of the kinky stuff with their gf,
Your thoughts? |
they probably do, but where as we tend to talk about it more openly i don't think its the same for most heterosexuals.
Its the same with anal sex, that's becoming more open in the straight world than what it used to be, but still has some stigma attached |
Why do I get super turned on by gay male porn? Is it because it's taboo and my not being gay makes it kinky? |
Lots of women are turned on by gay porn.
Most won't admit it.
Some people like leather, some like feet.
Don't worry about what turns you on as long
as it doesn't harm other people or involve guyren
or animals.
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Is being kinky the same as being gay? Even from my guyhood, I've always had a very strong attraction to BDSM. I don't feel it's a personal choice on my part - whether I'm "hard wired" as a kinky person or I became that way because of my environment, it's ulimately just part of who I am. Isn't this mor or less the same type of thing that a gay person experiences? Or am I just being melodramatic? |
To answer the clarified question: I do think that being "kinked" is like being gay, in that it's part of who you are. Just like homosexuals can participate in heterosexual sex, people who are kinked can participate in "vanilla" sex - they just won't enjoy it nearly as much.
It's something that you're born into, just like your orientation. |